Self isolation is hard for us in different ways and for some of you, with the distance during this unpredicted time in our life is making your relationships fall apart and others fall together, because it’s time that will always tell what your heart truly wants. And for some that’s growing together and for some that’s growing apart.
For some it’s mutual, for others it seems one sided. For some, there’s no distance at all (not even time to your self). And for some it’s amazing and fulfilling and brings you closer. And for others it’s a realization that what you thought was good, is the exact opposite
For some, you’re more lonely than you’ve ever felt because you have nobody and quarantine dating might be exciting, but it isn’t as fulfilling.
Where do you stand?
Remember that it’s also time that heals.
If you’re in love there’s frustration and uncertainties, insecurities, excitement or sadness….
If you’re in love you want to control the outcome, you want what you want and your dreams may be too idealistic
If you’re in love you might put your heart on the line and risk the break
If you’re in love your heart will churn like the ocean waves and spiral like an undertow from time to time
You might even be blind. Or, you might be free falling from mid air hoping the other will catch you before you land.
Sometimes the uncertainty of love is just too much to bare, yet here you are in the midst of uncertainties in a time that you’ll surely remember forever.
Perhaps you will come out of this thing wit a new found respect and admiration for your other half or perhaps you feel torn because what you were so certain of before now seems like a small, bleak speck in the distance.
Love brings happiness and love can also bring deep seeded sadness.
How about the relationship that you have with yourself?
Pretend it’s the end of your life and based on your current circumstances, would you regret doing something or not doing something? Would you regret taking the chance, the risk or not?
What does your heart want?
Forget right or wrong, your beliefs, systems and patterns. Let go, surrender and accept all the abundance that comes to you in forms you may not see right now because you are abundant even if you don’t feel like you are and when you’re truly following your heart you will not be led astray instead, you’ll be lead on the path that’s right for you.
I'm holding you tight
loving you
until we see the light
xoxo with love,
Taja